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How to Deal with Your Enemies

This is very well known that in the day to day life Everyone faces enemies. Whether you did not think bad about someone still people gonna hate you. Because you can’t make everyone happy. The people who are not happy with you become your enemy. Due to jealousy, some people become your enemy. You can learn to understand your enemy, get rid of them completely, and defend yourself if necessary.It is absolutely true that finding Enemies near you, are never easy task always. They always hide under the dressing gown of dearness you can’t easily recognize them.It has happened much time in your life at the workplace and surrounding too. Even if you have pure intentions about everyone near you still you can’t avoid their unnecessary presence in your life. What you can do, is learn how to well respond to these unwanted enemies and protect yourself. The Famous guru of India, Chanakya rule about the enemy is:

The remainder of an enemy can become active like those of a disease or fire. Hence, these should be destructed completely. One should never ignore an enemy, knowing him to be weak. He becomes dangerous in due courses, like the spark of fire in a haystack.pexels-photo-260907.jpeg

This law applies to daily life as you can analyze the thinking process of how you reach your field. But remember that doesn’t get that you don’t have to physically “crush your enemy”.“Crushing your enemy” is a thinking process from which you approach your field in order to dominate your competition.Everyone has a weakness and your enemy has too.When finding the weakness of your enemy will be needful to planning your goal and getting your enemy defeated.The easy way to avoid these enemies is to just avoid them.Never listen to them.

In Life, either there is the enemy or the friend.It’s the enemy to which you need to destroy and it’s the friend to which you surrender. Always remember that never sympathize with your enemies.Your enemy will bide his time and strike back when you didn’t expect.When you hope for reunion, it will make you hesitate. Your enemies may act friendly for the time being, but they will eventually destroy you. And this is not the new thing I am telling you. You noticed it at many times in your life.An enemy that is left around is like a half-dead viper that you nurse back to health.Give your enemies nothing to negotiate.You must defeat, and deny them the chance to return to haunt you.

They have no hope of recovering, insinuating themselves and hurting you again ever in their life. And if they cannot be banished, at least understand that they are plotting against you, and pay no heed to whatever friendliness they mold.

Sometimes It Is Better To Let Your Enemies Destroy Themselves

Leave your enemy an exit route. A refuge is the ultimate demoralizing defeat.Let them be their own destruction maker.
The risk of crushing an enemy is you back get up them so much so that they spend decades plotting revenge. Do not let your guard down.

You use surrender technique to gain all information access to your enemy.Treat them like your best friend. Ask them about their life as enthusiastically as you would someone you are genuinely interested in. You learn his ways, insinuate yourself with your enemy slowly, outwardly conform to his customs, but inwardly maintain your own tactics. You will come victorious, for while your enemy con­siders you weak and inferior, and takes no precautions against you, you are using the time to surpass your enemy. This soft, entry form of attack is often the best, for the enemy has nothing to react to you, your enemy is unprepared.

The idea of surrendering is to save your hide for a later time when you can prove yourself. The surrender tactic disguises your ambition. This teaches you patience and self-control that how to tolerate the person whom you did keylike and it puts you in the best possible position for taking advantage of your enemy. If your enemy is powerful than you and you run away or fight back, then for a long time you cant win. If you surrender, you will almost always come with victoriously.You must do it tactfully without ever speaking ill of the person in question.

15 thoughts on “How to Deal with Your Enemies”

  1. Wow, I love this! You should write a book, like the Art of War. I’ve written a couple of rules for dealing with enemies as well, it’s really helpful.

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  2. What i think is “ दुश्मनी एसी निभाओ के दुश्मन को भी पता नही चले कि तुम उसके दुश्मन हो “😀


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