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What To Forget? : What To Remember?

Don’t Forget to Remember and Remember to Forget. There are some things to forget and some things to remember in life to make your life worth living.

Always forgive your enemies. Nothing annoys them so much: Forget about Something Bad Happened with You!!

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Not forgiving others who did bad to us, becomes a heavy burden on our heart. Forgiveness kills hatred due to bad things happening with you. if you cannot get rid of your Ego, you will never be able to fully forgive anyone for anything. This makes bitterness in your heart’s corner.

Forgive as God forgave you. Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness. But because you deserve peace. We should try to forgive for the sake of our own. Denying to forgive others is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die๐Ÿ˜€. If you do not receive an apology from that person who hurt you, still suffering the consequences of the behaviour that has been repeated, let yourself off the hook from this. But for your peace of mind, you must forgive yourself and Donโ€™t blame the victim as you can’t control anyone else except yourself.

But in real life, it is very hard to do. I know that Forgiveness is not a choice we get to make. Itโ€™s something that tends to happen automatically when an apology or punishment or revenge happen. Ongoing bad things frequently are less forgivable than a single incident. One might be an accident. Twice is a pattern. Be aware of what things are forgivable and what not. Like someone hurt you once with his words then you can forget about it and forgive the person. If someone daily hurt you physically then it is not forgivable instead you must take an action regarding this.

Do not keep records of what you have done for others; God will do that for you: Forget about Something Good You have done For Others!!

Do good, and forget about it. Do bad, and think about it. God is not unjust to forget your work and the love that you have shown toward His name in having ministered to the saints, and in still ministering. You are a delivery boy of good things which you receive from God otherwise you fill yourself with pride. Forget about whatever you have done well for others.

Do our good deeds for others and then be off, not looking back as God will reward far better than we could ever ask, expect, or want? Do good and forget. It will grow someday, you don’t need to maintain a record in your mind. The idea of helping others is not like the give and take things of life. If we have the selfish idea of receiving something, even a warm ‘thanks’, the whole idea of ‘helping’ loses its charm and worth. So better to forget about it.

The fear of facing your fears is harder to overcome than the fear itself: Forget About Your Fear!!

Everybody fears something! Some of the examples of fear are: What if I fail? What if I donโ€™t make any money? What if nobody wants to work with me?what if I screw up and end up being without work at all? travelling alone? afraid of failure? afraid of changes? Stop being fearful about what could go wrong in life and start being positive about what could go right in life. Remember that feeling of fear is holding you back!

Facing fears every time in your head is not more than just an emotion or a state of mind. Fear stops you to give your best. It damages your productive personality and talent. It impacts your life, influencing the ability to do anything. Fearing failure is good that allow you do well. It also stops you from doing well in case the feeling is at the level of its extreme. Ask yourself, what is the worst thing that could occur? And how you can overcome this is important. Life moves on so you should not stop.

It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live: Remember about your Death

No matter who you are A Prime minister of a country or a worm, Death will come to you one day. Remembering death suppresses inordinate desires. Anyone who remembers death frequently saves himself from the hypocrisies of the world. Life is just a journey that passes by many stations with death being the last, ultimate station. Something becomes ultimate only when it is compared to others. We start our life, hoping, learning, failing, succeeding etc, and we go on.

Remember To everyday happiness, not let negativity pull you down and bring your relationships to the next level: Causeless Happiness

Usually, We forget how important happiness is and get consumed with our negative self-talk from time to time. We sometimes donโ€™t consciously realise we are doing this to ourselves which is harmful in every aspect. Remember that by being happy without reason, we have the potential to change many other people’s lives just by being ourselves. We are all programmed to feel happiness as the norm. Itโ€™s what we let get in the way that alters our programming for the worst.

We can rely to a degree on our experience to understand the question of why we die and why we live. Due to death will come any day so be happy always without any reason. You must have to be happy with little things because the quality of life depends on happiness. Happiness is in understanding it not in material things. No matter what condition is in your life you must remember that peace and happiness is the ultimate goal of life. For being happy always, Change the way you respond to situations and personalities. They cannot affect inflicting any kind of misery upon you until you allow them.

Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness: Remember Purpose Of Your Life

Our minds depend on a system of patterns and behaviours. The initial feeling of purpose falls flat, leaving a wake of self-doubt, despair and hopelessness. The more you engage with a meaningful life, not only does it grow with time, but it also provides you with a fulfilling life. Live with a purpose and for that purpose; it offers definite emotional and psychological benefits! People who know their purpose in life are unstoppable. They are true to their purpose and shape their life accordingly.

Everyone has a purpose in life. Everyone has talent. Before death, you must use your talent and fulfil your purpose and express it. One of the common features among people who live with purpose is that they can find meaning in the things that happen to them. A meaningful life guides wise actions, giving a sense of constructive direction. People who know their purpose in life know who they are, what they are, and why they are.

42 thoughts on “What To Forget? : What To Remember?”

  1. We should apply this in our daily life… from today onwards i will apply… thanks Nidhi for your valuable thoughts… ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. Thanks for sharing!…

    โ€œThe life I touch for good or ill will touch another life, and that in turn another, until who knows where the trembling stops or in what far place my touch will be felt. โ€œ
    Friedrich Buechner

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  3. Thank you for sharing this post. I loved reading it very much ^^ . The one that spoke to me most was: “The fear of facing your fears is harder to overcome than the fear itself : Forget About Your Fear!!”.

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    1. If you canโ€™t forgiveโ€ฆbest to forget and move onโ€ฆyour worth more than the unforgiving grudge you hold. Trust me, such people are not worth the effort or energy you spend holding onto it allโ€ฆ.they dont give a shyt..so why waste energy on things that are not worth itโ€ฆYour amazing without all the stress of dramasโ€ฆ..they are just the shit on your shoeโ€ฆ..

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